First Date Do’s and Don’ts

First Date Dos and DontsOn your first date you must be very careful about few things, otherwise if you fail to impress on the first date, you may not get the second chance. Here are a few do’s and don’ts on your first date:

Do’s:

  1. Be punctual, don’t be late. Otherwise you may be observed as disrespectful or unreliable.
  2. Plan your date properly keeping in mind the likings of your match.
  3. Keep your date excited with surprises.
  4. Be well presentable; Well dressed, properly washed, shined shoes etc. It is not to impress your date but to show proper respect and importance for the first date.
  5. Behave decently and give proper respect to your date.
  6. You must have an excellent table manner which is most important factor. With every action of yours you will be judged by your date.
  7. Choose appropriate location giving your date full comfort.
  8. Properly communicate, listen to other, allow to speak and you also make some good conversation.
  9. Be most realistic. Don’t have high expectation. Be cool and enjoy your first date.
  10. Turn off your cell phone or put it in vibratory mode.
  11. Be positive and show confidence.
  12. Trust your date.

Don’ts:

  1. Don’t go overboard where as dress and make up are concerned. Try to be as natural as possible.
  2. Never monopolize the conversation. Ask questions on the topics your date is communicating.
  3. Don’t forget to smile.
  4. Don’t talk negative.
  5. Don’t pretend to be someone else. Be truthful and transparent.
  6. Don’t discuss or complain on your previous relationship.
  7. Don’t think or discuss on any office related topic or any other work not relevant to your date.
  8. Don’t talk too much about yourself, as you are not sure about the end relationship of the date.
  9. Don’t ask awkward question so that your date becomes nervous.
  10. Don’t get drunk.
  11. Don’t lie; otherwise you can come to the street.
  12. Don’t pursue for sex after your partner has said no.

Be perfect on your first date and show gentle manners to make the first date a successful one.


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First Date Advice 1 Comment

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  1. Posted by Eric Lee 18th January, 2009 at 3:00 pm

    Nice writing style. I look forward to reading more in the future.

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